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If someone asked me "how are u" id respond with "yesterday i was gucci so today im fendi". These are responses to How are you? It would be even better if I could get a picture of you. The key to coming up with a winning retort is to hone your listening skills so that you can respond at lightning speed. Think you can do better than Churchill? Click this link to send us your best comeback. They can only be made in the moment using the unexpected material you get from the other person by listening actively and precisely, experts say.
Abigail Paul, the artistic director at the Theatre Language Studio TLS in Frankfurt, says people think faster than others speak, giving the listener "extra time" to compose an answer, even while they give the appearance of still listening to what the other person is saying.
How many times have you been on a conference call and already had an idea to share, an answer to a question or solution to a problem before the person on the line has even finished his sentence? The same listening skills and thought processes apply when a conversation turns sour and your defence needs to kick in.
The question is how to refocus that extra time you have while you're listening, said Paul, who teaches improvisation theatre techniques. There is no magic bullet to getting better at listening besides practice," she said. One strategy to hone listening skills is through a simple game of one-word volleyball, where two people build a story by rapidly taking turns to add a word to what the other said immediately before. The game forces players to listen actively and respond spontaneously.
In the case of snide remarks, if you know your colleague has a tendency to make them, train your brain to listen to his or her words carefully and be prepared to remark quickly to defuse the situation. The following two tabs change content below.
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